and if that spans years, i’d take that.

At this point in my life, I’d like to know interesting people that I can connect with and see where that goes. If you are on this site looking for your “forever” person, I would not fit that bill. Maybe it’s the way it’s stated that bothers me. Nothing is forever (except maybe the soul), everything is change, security an illusion (although we try so hard to erect lives that contradict that). I'd rather keep it simple and hope for the opportunity to meet someone and have a wondrous journey with them. And if that spans years, I’d take that.