It seems like it hurts you and your family to help us. I never seen such selfish people. If one of your family members was in need I would help them. It seems like you put your family in this position or situation than you run to New York and stay there. Dave I am a very discipline person and alway been that way and very classy person. I'm at home being a parent while you was out in the streets blowing you and your family life up.  :-)))