hi,

really appreciate your patience with me - i often like to let things simmer a bit so i can respond in the best way possible.  it's part of my process of staying safe, and i'm really glad you're thinking about what staying safe means to you.  you're very important to me, and the fact that you're taking safety seriously is very comforting.

for me, staying safe means engaging in person with you and whomever else you decide to include in your process of discovery and healing.  i prefer working through things face to face for a variety of reasons; it's more personal and ultimately, i believe,
more effective.

i certainly have thoughts on what you have written above.  as i mentioned to you and your mom, i am willing to come to visit as your needs and interests require and you are certainly always welcome in new york city.  again, i am happy to engage
publicly with whomever you decide to include in the process.

as you know, i have a great deal of admiration and respect for you and am following your journey with keen interest.  if i can ever be of assistance to you now or in the future, please don't hesitate to be in touch.

with love, me