the people I'm drawn to seem only to have in common that they tend to be made of a singular combination of ingredients I couldn't have dreamed up myself.

Hmm. I'm not one of those people with a distinct type, or able to make a laundry list of ideal qualities — the people I'm drawn to seem only to have in common that they tend to be made of a singular combination of ingredients I couldn't have dreamed up myself. That said, someone I'd want to spend a whole lot of time with would probably be quietly intelligent, and kind; would like words; would be infinitely curious about the world, and able to enjoy doing absolutely nothing as much as being totally engaged with something; would be part homebody and part wanderer, part city mouse and part country mouse. That would be a fine start, I reckon. As to the rest... definitely message me if you know the rest.