I'd like to meet someone that wants to be an active participant in a relationship of our own devising!

I've recently gotten into relationship anarchy, I think a lot of the rules we have about relationships are baseless and potentially harmful. I'd like to meet someone who is a good listener, and a good talker, that wants to be an active participant in a relationship of our own devising! That's not all going to happen on the first date or anything, just something to be aware of.